Why some Men are afraid of marriage?

‎"Any fool can have a trophy wife. It takes a real man to have a trophy marriage."

 

Many Woman want to be married as soon as they feel that they have found that "one" but not thinking about his true feelings on Marriage. Does he know what it takes to be in a true committed relationship, Is he truly ready to leg go of some of his bad habits, Is he ready to share with his wife when he was so use to self? These are some questions to ask your boyfriend before even considering him to be apart of your life chapter.

Marriage is considerably uniting and linking between man and woman together as one. Responsibility and support, for each one, is needed and necessary, to survive a certain marriage and in order to work successfully and last forever. It is everyone's dream and fantasy to get married and wants to experience the big day. But unfortunately, some people are less interested to get into a certain decision, like getting married, especially "man". They have this fear inside that results into a big confusion. Some guys are hesitant, overly cautious, more particular and try to ponder before they made a certain decision. That's why, they are afraid to get married and here's the reason's why?

(1) Not ready for a big commitment. It is important to have commitment, commitment is the foundation to have a long lasting relationship. Also being committed to someone, is along with sharing things, it means give and take, whatever both person has. It takes $$$ and time to start a family. And sad to say,some guys are not ready for that and not willing to do so. They want to enjoy being alone and and not ready for a big responsibility. They felt the self limitation socially. This is exactly the reason why men are afraid of marriage.

(2) Power competition. Between hubby and wife, competition is always there. Who makes more money? Who is smarter and more intelligent? And finally, who is the boss? That is the issue inside the household. Possibly, arguments starts and heating up quickly as fast as blink of an eye. Men are obviously more aggressive, when it comes to power.

(3) Financially Unstable. Some men are not ready financially. Their income is not enough to support and start a family. Saving money is a must in order to settle down and to have a peaceful relationship. Money is always the number  1 issue why marriages likely not successful.

(4)Emotionally unstable . Some guys are less interested and afraid to get married because, they just wants to have fun, to have casual dates and not ready emotionally. Their inside thought of married to someone, is not part of their own fantasy. Some guys prefer to be single and no plan to get married at all.

(5) Fear. Guys are afraid, not be able to provide the needs of a women, from expensive,sparkly diamond rings, a white stylish wedding dress, and expensive wedding reception and even lifetime material necessities. Men are very observant and know how to predict things.

In my personal thoughts about this, in order to get married and start our own family, we should be all emotionally, mentally, financially stable to settle down. Expensive wedding doesn't need to be fancy and expensive as long as we are ready for it and start a family of our own seriously. Basically, love, commitment and presence is all what it takes.

 WHAT'S YOUR THOUGHTS?